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Feeling Pressured to Take Ozempic?

Published by Ksenia Kolesnikova on March 9, 2025
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Elisabeth looking frustrated and anxious in front of a mirror, applying more lipstick and smudging it across her face, portraying the pressure of beauty standards and self-image struggles.

In a world obsessed with youth and beauty, it’s easy to feel like you’re not enough. But what if we stopped chasing an ideal and started embracing ourselves as we are?

So here we are. The world is obsessed with shrinking. Everywhere you look, from Instagram feeds to magazine covers, people are getting smaller and smaller, quite literally. And yes, we’re talking about the Ozempic trend. The promise of quick, magical weight loss has taken hold of pop culture and, for many, it feels like a ticket to finally fitting into the societal mold of what’s considered “acceptable.” But here’s the thing: You don’t have to shrink your body to be worthy. Full stop.

You might be thinking, “But Ksenia, everyone around me is losing weight, and I feel like I’m stuck in this body that just doesn’t fit in.” Trust me, I get it. That feeling of being left behind when everyone else seems to be “winning” the body game can be isolating, frustrating, and downright depressing. It’s not just about looking different; it’s about feeling different. And that feeling—of being too big, too loud, or too visible—can make you want to hide away or even change yourself to “fit in.”

But here’s the kicker: It’s not you that’s the problem. It’s the world we live in. It’s the toxic culture that tells us that our worth is tied to the number on the scale, the size of our jeans, or how “shrinkable” our bodies are. And, let’s be real, it’s messed up.

Remember the movie The Substance with Demi Moore? In it, she plays a woman who, much like many of us, gets swept up in the pressures of society’s beauty standards. The character struggles with finding her true self amidst external pressures to change, to be something she’s not, and to meet an ideal that was never meant for her. There’s a deep and relatable parallel here. We, too, are often told we need to take something—whether it’s a pill, a diet, or even a surgery—to be acceptable, to be better. But just like Demi Moore’s character in The Substance, you have the power to break free from that narrative. Your worth doesn’t come from fitting into someone else’s idea of beauty.

But Elisabeth Sparkle’s story in The Substance goes even further, showing us the deeper consequences of obsessing over appearance. Elisabeth is so consumed with staying youthful that she loses sight of what truly matters. She becomes so afraid of aging, of losing her looks, that she’s willing to risk everything—including her health—for a fleeting sense of youth. But here’s the kicker: Despite her new youthful appearance, Elisabeth becomes isolated. She misses out on love, on connection, and on real relationships because she can’t bring herself to leave the house. She’s trapped in a cycle of self-hatred and fear, too scared to even show up as she is.

This is the true cost of obsessing over appearance—it keeps us from being fully present in our lives and from building the deep, authentic connections that truly make life worth living. Elisabeth’s story shows us what happens when we let society’s pressure to be “perfect” consume us: we miss out on everything that makes life beautiful.

Let’s talk about Ozempic for a moment. Ozempic, the miracle drug that’s become the go-to for rapid weight loss, has flooded our conversations and social media feeds. It promises to help people drop pounds quickly, and while it’s marketed for diabetes management, it’s being used off-label for weight loss. And yes, it’s making people smaller. But it’s not making anyone feel better about themselves.

Here’s the reality check: If taking Ozempic, or any other weight-loss solution, is what you think will make you happy or finally “enough,” you’re chasing an illusion. Happiness doesn’t come from losing weight or shrinking your body. It comes from embracing who you are, as you are. And that includes accepting your body—whether it’s bigger, smaller, or just right for you.

Let’s be clear: There’s nothing wrong with wanting to make changes in your life or body. If you’re considering Ozempic or any other weight loss strategy, that’s your choice. But you don’t need to feel like it’s the only option for you to feel good about yourself. We’re in a world that’s obsessed with controlling bodies, but the truth is, all bodies are good bodies. The body you have right now is worthy of love, respect, and care—no matter the shape, size, or the number on the scale.

We’ve been conditioned to think that if we don’t shrink, if we don’t conform to a certain look, then we aren’t “good enough.” But the truth is, this culture is broken. It’s so messed up that it tells people, especially those in larger bodies, that they need to change everything about themselves in order to be seen as worthy or beautiful. It’s exhausting. And it’s not sustainable.

So, let’s reframe the conversation. Instead of focusing on shrinking your body, let’s focus on expanding your self-love, self-acceptance, and inner peace. Ask yourself: What would it feel like to stop chasing a number and start embracing where you are right now? Imagine a life where your worth is not determined by your weight or appearance, but by your kindness, your strengths, your achievements, and the love you give and receive.

The journey toward accepting your body is not about being perfect. It’s about being honest with yourself, letting go of unrealistic standards, and allowing space for all kinds of bodies to exist—yours included.

Remember, this is your life. You get to decide what feels best for you. It’s not about Ozempic or any quick-fix solutions. It’s about taking the time to nurture yourself, both mentally and physically, in a way that feels right for you. And most importantly, it’s about recognizing that you are enough, just as you are. No weight loss, no body-shrinking, no pill required.

If you’re feeling the pressure to change your body because of the noise around you, take a moment to reflect on whether that’s truly what you want. Take a step back from the noise and listen to what your body is telling you. Maybe it’s time to stop trying to shrink your body and start expanding your self-love instead.

So, here’s my message to you: You deserve to take up space. You deserve to love your body in all its forms. And most importantly, you deserve to feel at peace with who you are, regardless of what the world is telling you about how you should look. All bodies are good bodies, and yours is no exception.

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